Sunday, March 25, 2012
My Own Project Thesis: Fruit hai re- Viral Marketing at its best
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Mr. Per(Fict)
Recently I read Ramayana (the abridged version by C.Rajagopalachari) and Twilight by Stephanie Meyer, two books which couldn’t be more different to one another. Rama is such a beautifully etched character. Every person loves Rama as their hero. I would say, compare it to Edward Cullen. Both were awe-inspiring to me, but both two different characters, one a God and the other, a vampire. I found a serene mysterious beauty in them.
So that makes me think, why do women fall for men in literature, fiction, movies and plays. What makes them so appealing? So exciting? The reason is that they are not like the men we encounter in real life, who according to me, have at least one major ‘Tragic flaw’ (originally used in Julius Caesar, work of Shakespeare, meaning, a flaw in the character of the protagonist of a tragedy that brings the protagonist to ruin or sorrow) that overshadows all other qualities. We see a guy, fall for him, then comes the getting to know each other part. That is the time we get to know, “hey this dude is quite different from what I thought he would be like!”/ “what I fell for in the first place is not as appealing as I thought”. We still make-do and move on, liking and relishing the differentness, somewhere within, even accepting it.
Then later, in most cases, after considerable time, the guy unleashes his ‘tragic flaw’, which catches you off guard and makes you miserable. Anything that is very hard to accept at that stage, qualifies as a tragic flaw. Something you have not paid attention to earlier perhaps, but has always been there. And of course, all guys have one. Talks with friends, reading extensively have revealed certain traits, for example, some could be compulsive liars (these guys would lie extravagantly like there’s no tomorrow), some brag endlessly, some are too fake (read wannabes), some penny pinchers, some with funny ‘engliss’, some don’t know how to treat girls, some are addicts (could be anything), some hide an inferiority complex that consumes him whole..phew..the list would never end.
Every guy possesses one or more of these traits in different combinations. The basic fact is that at some point in time, any of this, to a girl, does become a problem. That is when a girls heart squeaks, “Maybe he is not the right one..” As to a girl who has grown up reading about Rama, Prince Charming, Darcy, Peter Parker, Edward Cullen, the standards for the perfect guy are set too high. It’s best we stay happy with a few qualities out of the skill set, a subset. But is there actually something as the Perfect man? A myth in all probability.
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Love aaj kal- Decline of the Romantic Era
Episode in Rishtey, where a man falls in love with a girl working in the CD shop. He comes there everyday, not garnering enough courage to profess his love for her. She sells him a CD everyday. He returns home frustrated. Once he altogether stops coming. Doesn't come for days.
She gets concerned, goes to his house. Someone tells her hes left for heavenly abode. She is shocked. Goes to the CD collection and finds all the CD's hes purchased lying unopened over there. Opens it and theres a note in each one that she had put telling him she likes him now. He never came to know about her love.
Now, its all about conquering your love. If not, hard luck, move to the next one please. Its easily available too, with people no longer shying away from having multiple relationships. Movies are catering to the growth of this trend. Sad state.
Liberating Verses
you are back again,
my heart pierced,
with a familiar pain.
Lie low,
so no one can see,
but I know,
noticed I would never be.
Sob for a reason,
sulk in vain,
you cannot replenish,
the scars that remain.
Never again will I do this,
to myself. I promise,
people unworthy I will dissmiss,
and the beautiful true ones I maintain with a kiss.
Muah! Muah! Muah!
Don't waste a tear,
it is precious,
causal factors gain several jeers,
Now I'm strong, against you I am cautious.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Not a girl..Am a woman..
I also feel, maybe, this is because of the great times I've had in 21, The work experience at The PRactice, time spent at Bangalore, staying alone in a PG, time spent with real tight friends, loooong night walks, my first trip with friends to Pondicherry, trying out for zillion jobs of all kinds..read journalism, advertising, content writing, public relations, airlines ground staff, business development executive...all kinds. I loved every it, every minute was thrilling, tantalizing at every step. It was a beautiful year indeed. New beginnings happened in the later phase.
On the flip side, I could be feeling so strongly about it, owing to things that were lacking. Maybe I feel I didn't do justice to my age of 21. Why? As I let myself quit a job where I couldve tried to pass through a very rough patch. The job hunt was rough on me. I was living on the edge all through. I let my fitness go, in the later phase, getting an inch increase on my tummy. Tshirts tighter, jeans turn snug fit. Deprived myself from buying new clothes for so many months, walking out like a slob. Messing with my hair so much.
With this new year in my life, a new year of my existence, I promise myself, that I will be positive, self-sufficient, hardworking and confident. I have to learn new things with an open mind, take better care of myself, so that at the end of the year, I dont regret this. Regret over things I did not do, regret over the unattainable.
Thanks conscience, for bringing this to my mind. I love you 21. In my hearts of hearts I'll always be 21.
Sunday, August 16, 2009
A Disquiet Mind
And so I’ve heard,
It unlocks your disquiet mind,
And lets the thoughts unfurl.
I have been heart sunken,
For a long time now,
The tragedy of the known,
Is the worst of the kind.
Taking refuge in activities unrelated,
I had to divert my mind,
How long I can hold the dam,
I had yet to find.
When it hurts from within,
There is a restlessness developed,
Your heart feels sore,
And your hatred swells from inside.
Wear striking colours on nails,
They glitz away your attention,
As you gaze in admiration,
It’s in your mind...Sweet, sweet flirtation.
Do justice to your life,
See most places, talk to all,
Have gala of a time,
While, as they term, you are in your prime.
While you cannot essay an unquiet thought,
You can verse away the blues,
You have the rhymes in place,
If not, it still brings out utter grace.
Days I spend in agony,
Are the worst days of all.
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Modern day virtues, and their slow death
I feel inspired by 'Sex and the City' to take up blogging again. Carrie Bradshaw is someone, any modern day girl would identify with. The sexcapades are a little too much to identify with, but her confused demeanour and messed up love life strikes a chord.
In our modern lives, we are all Carrie Bradshaws, who are struggling to find the right guy. Who would depend on their friends for every advice. Who would open up their lives to their friends. She makes mistakes, and she gets up and moves on. Its the spirit, one must have.
Let us hope this strong-willed character does not bring about change in an uncalled for way among the conservative Indian lot. However, the wheels are in motion, change is in the air.