Me Myself Unleashed
Tuesday, August 2, 2016
Your Bad dream.. is telling you something
Wednesday, June 10, 2015
First Attempt at a Movie Review- 'Rachel getting married'
Its a mature drama that unfolds, which covers a different side of an otherwise happy sappy wedding gala. It lets you witness a vast canvas of real like heart warming emotions.. a major emotional showdown between the sisters, identity crisis that Kym is grappling with, trust issues, jealousy, sibling rivalry, absolving past sins, love and then brings forth for all to absorb the one message that the movie aims to convey..all families are the same, they stand with you through thick and thin, and there is nothing that can replace Family.
A bit about the movie..Kym returns home to her father keeping a close watch on her every move, she feels a lack of trust. Her sister, Rachel, had not expected her to be released for the wedding hence had assigned the coveted Bridesmaid role to her best friend, Emma. Kym feels a slow resentment and detachment cropping up for her family.
A wedding can be major drama, we Bollywood fanatics know this more than anyone. This one is no different, there are tears, hugs, tantrums and fun galore. Plus, the groom is of an ethnic descent and they have an 'Indian Theme wedding' hence a lot of Indian saris, accessories, elephants, etc. on display, which is a real treat and gives you that silent pride on being an Indian.
I loved Kym's preposterous speech at the wedding dinner, dry self depricating humor at its best.
Very convincing chemistry between the two mixed race wedding party's. The father daughter bonding was endearing. Kym's struggle with the long buried family tragedy which she can never undo, and her trying in her own way to come to terms with, is touching. I liked Rachel, Paul and Abby, apart from the lead character, they were strongly etched characters in the movie.
One must watch Rachel getting Married, for this diverse multicultural wedding experience and very real looking family scenes that make you introspect for long after.
Thursday, June 4, 2015
Turbulent times.. Terrible minds..
Thursday, April 3, 2014
All In a days musings.. (removing bhadaas on TV Soaps)
They say society is hugely structured and effected by mass media, and television has a huge role to play in this. It now along with its fellow compatriots, the internet and movies are ruling the mass mindsets. There is a stark difference between what was made for public consumption then and now. While before, it was a singular thought that drove a script writer to pen his story and develop it into a show, now, there are hundreds of confused parallel scripts running alongside each other, just to maintain those coveted TRP's. Its turned into such a sham nowadays that they stoop to all sorts of levels to oust each other in the spirit of competition. There's always the cunning mother in law trying to sabotage her daughter in laws life and vice versa by coming up with new innovative methods of torture, or there is an ex lover who comes and tries to woo the protagonist back into his life, or the ill meaning husband who is trying to have his wife killed as he cannot stand her. Horrendous as they may seem, but these are the current running items on our beloved television shows. How they corrupt the society's mindset and affect real life stories cannot be proved, but it must be happening.
In reality, a person as inexperienced and innocent as a housewife is subject to a whole new world, of conniving wives, suspicious husbands, killers in the family, etc. Would this not affect her? Say, if she is subject to this at least 5 hours in a day. All this is created for the sake of melodrama, a housewife's favorite tool to step away from her own lifes realities and burdens. But, every show, someones crying away, another's sad and depressed and another is vengeful. How is that going to create cheer in someones life. Its all making them and us feel, what a sad world it is outside.
These new reality shows, that show few people thrown into a house fighting like cats and dogs in a matter of days in different permutations and combinations is popular now, because people now thrive on this form of entertainment which is nothing but sadistic pleasure derived from watching someone else in difficulty.
Crime related shows are now stepping on dangerous territories, instead of cautioning us common citizens, they are almost scaring us or inspiring some to take up such crimes. Some movies are in fact glamorizing the urban metro sexual male/female with a few grey streaks to their characters or total negative or vampish avatars. If you show the male lead, a hot strutting hero oozing masculinity, machismo and charisma involved in some not so sane activities, you get amazed now, enthralled and some without realizing it, get inspired. So you've got some fool hardy youngsters around taking to the wrong lane, thinking it depicts 'cool', you know what to blame for that.
Bedroom scenes in shows and movies are just passe' now. They were unheard of before in popular culture. I remember the hype created by the bedroom scene in 'Bade acche lagte hain', all had their tvs on waiting for that scene, and poof getting a tad disappointed. Haha.. or was that just me? Jokes apart, these scenes have been replicated everywhere, on every popular show right now. The lead pair is now getting up close and personal for the cameras, the actors themselves are not shying away either, as all are mostly aspiring movie stars, who are literally auditioning on their shows every minute, and believe that this too is now a part and parcel of their acting careers.
What they don't realize is the effect it has on people, especially young people. Its creating a need in people for intimacy without realizing it. You see a couple on your favorite show, after episodes of an electric noticable chemistry, amazing serenading, then finally a love scene. This will create a desire in people who are believing in the people, liking them and identifying with them. It's a reason why you've now got school going kids going haywire in handling their lives. People now don't believe in an undying love, they believe love can have an end and just move on to the next.
Kids now end up going to every movie thats released because its the "in" thing to do, splurge on happening joints as you are not accepted otherwise!! When you are showing people doing the same on your pseudo reality shows, how do you expect young unsuspecting minds to think otherwise. So now education takes a beating, its not the coolest to be a topper anymore, you go to your classes or you bunk, but if you manage to scram and pass or top without being a padhaku year round, you are the new cool!!
Ideas from the West have hugely affected our mass culture.
Now in serials too, there are movie influences. I just caught a serial mimicking Dil, the erstwhile Aamir Khan and Madhuri Dixit movie, where he molests her and they start their relation eventually leading to a sizzling love story. Another serial, where the lead actress is fervently crying, 'mera pehla pyaar tut gaya', reminiscent of the Kuch Kuch Hota Hai moment. Film songs are played in the background, these are popular tracks that have captured the viewers imagination. Televison has now come a long way. Is this however blurring the line between TV shows and movies? If we are getting a cinema experience on our on telly screens and movies that are released come on air on TV in a matter of months, isn't this going to hit the movie business in time.
I appreciated the show 'Satyamev Jayate' which was hugely popular in its short lived run and now rerun. It set out with a singular noble thought, that to set straight certain Indian values, indian cultures that have gone astray. It aimed to spread awareness, it aimed to correct and it aimed to motivate. It succeeded in doing so to a large extent. Getting a popular driven face to moot this idea was a winning factor here. Can we not have similar shows running and inspiring our youth, our elders and our fellow beings.
Westernized thoughts and culture that have entered the indian psyche and culture are more of a peril than a blessing. It is creating a more uninhibited open world out there, but it is also complicating our simple pure lives. We may claim to have accepted and imbibed westernized culture successfully in our society with our high ways of living, but still we get stared down by every eye if we wear short skirts. Will we come of age or are we living in a semi pseudo westernized state where in our minds we are forward thinking and westernized, but in our deeds we fail to progress beyond a stage fearing non acceptance.
Among all these jumbled thoughts on angst I face by the mass culture today, I thought of something. An idea that can perhaps change me, and in turn could benefit other folks if passed around. If it is the media that is causing a change in us, why don't we change what we are exposed to. I thought, instead of just sitting by and absorbing insane stories of bahus going on a killing massacre, while mom watches, I will restrict my viewing of these and read a book instead or watch old rishtey or clean shows of old episodes on Youtube. So I will start reculturing myself to programme and think in a certain way that does not revolve around deceit, revenge, angst, depression or sorrow. I want to be instead happy, serene, peaceful, satisfied and inspired by what I watch. I want to lead a better life, maybe this might prove to be a stepping stone in achieving that.
Sunday, May 13, 2012
Mall Culture: Making apes out of us!
An example of this trend is standardization of product category with the brands most well know in those categories. We all have come across the famous "Baggit" wallet which is now becoming generic in the ladies wallet category. Never has a bag brand gotten so popular in the ladies fashion market. Its become a wardrobe must have. Also, in Ladies kurtas, how I wish to see people wearing any other brand than the very common "W" for Westside kurtas or Biba. They are typical and again, easily identifiable. Westside and Biba I believe started the whole trend of wearing Kurtas on leggings as a neat semi-formal look, which now passes as office wear. In the handbangs category though, Esbeda and the now infamous Louis Vuitton lookalike bags have become huge successes. For guys, "Woodland" shoes are easy to choose, go well on formals and casuals alike, and save them the trouble of keeping too many shoes, and hence minimal fuss, so become a mens shoewear must have.
Such culture is mostly followed in Metros, I cant speak for all of them, but yes, I have stayed long enough in both Mumbai and Bengaluru, to speak for them. It is somehow diminishing the importance of having a personal style and upping the need for following the latest trends in clothes, bags and shoes. Even actors are prey to this trend. What is the differentiation however, is in the money factor. People who can afford big brands with sky high price tags, go for those, and the moderate spenders go for the more popular reasonably priced brands.
When I see these people, most of them, in ladies, will sport a trendy hairstyle, with streaks being hugely popular, and one of those long tunics, three-fourths or smart jeans, and heels or pumps. This describes a majority of the women mall goers. Men, would mostly be in jeans or cargos, that could be from anywhere, with a simple Lacoste T-shirt thrown on. It is so so common, that every other person you lay your eyes on is thus dressed. Not to mention the kids brigade with fun frolic colors, the Gini Jony types. What is the matter with people, so engrossed with dressing alike and looking socially acceptable, that they fear change or looking mismatched. Just look around, and laugh at the ridiculousness of all of it. Then you know what I mean.
Sunday, March 25, 2012
My Own Project Thesis: Fruit hai re- Viral Marketing at its best
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Mr. Per(Fict)
Recently I read Ramayana (the abridged version by C.Rajagopalachari) and Twilight by Stephanie Meyer, two books which couldn’t be more different to one another. Rama is such a beautifully etched character. Every person loves Rama as their hero. I would say, compare it to Edward Cullen. Both were awe-inspiring to me, but both two different characters, one a God and the other, a vampire. I found a serene mysterious beauty in them.
So that makes me think, why do women fall for men in literature, fiction, movies and plays. What makes them so appealing? So exciting? The reason is that they are not like the men we encounter in real life, who according to me, have at least one major ‘Tragic flaw’ (originally used in Julius Caesar, work of Shakespeare, meaning, a flaw in the character of the protagonist of a tragedy that brings the protagonist to ruin or sorrow) that overshadows all other qualities. We see a guy, fall for him, then comes the getting to know each other part. That is the time we get to know, “hey this dude is quite different from what I thought he would be like!”/ “what I fell for in the first place is not as appealing as I thought”. We still make-do and move on, liking and relishing the differentness, somewhere within, even accepting it.
Then later, in most cases, after considerable time, the guy unleashes his ‘tragic flaw’, which catches you off guard and makes you miserable. Anything that is very hard to accept at that stage, qualifies as a tragic flaw. Something you have not paid attention to earlier perhaps, but has always been there. And of course, all guys have one. Talks with friends, reading extensively have revealed certain traits, for example, some could be compulsive liars (these guys would lie extravagantly like there’s no tomorrow), some brag endlessly, some are too fake (read wannabes), some penny pinchers, some with funny ‘engliss’, some don’t know how to treat girls, some are addicts (could be anything), some hide an inferiority complex that consumes him whole..phew..the list would never end.
Every guy possesses one or more of these traits in different combinations. The basic fact is that at some point in time, any of this, to a girl, does become a problem. That is when a girls heart squeaks, “Maybe he is not the right one..” As to a girl who has grown up reading about Rama, Prince Charming, Darcy, Peter Parker, Edward Cullen, the standards for the perfect guy are set too high. It’s best we stay happy with a few qualities out of the skill set, a subset. But is there actually something as the Perfect man? A myth in all probability.